It is said that in a relationship trust and honesty must exist. If they don’t then there is no point of loving. So, if one cannot afford, to be honest, they must stay single.
Being with someone in an affair is not a piece of cake, but a healthy couple knows how to handle all the ups and downs and how to weather a storm. Happy and healthy relationships just don’t happen. They take a lot of patience, time, and two people who want to be together with all their heart.
Moreover, not only is each affair different but within each relationship, each individual defines happiness in a discrete manner. So, what makes for a healthy and happy relationship differs from couple to couple. Forming a positive and trustful partnership takes time and effort. For any relationship to grow and stay strong, one needs to put in some work and effort. One cannot have a relationship without any fight but they can make their relationship worth the fight.
Below are some habits that a couple can adapt to in order to create a happy and a healthy twosome
Research shows that the most important part of a contented relationship is communication. A happy couple doesn’t avoid conflicts but they do know how to keep the communication lines open. However, not every couple know how to communicate so if a couple learns how to communicate effectively, it might resolve half of their problems.
2. Quality Time
In every relationship, the quality of time always outweighs the quantity of time. It does not matter how much time you and your better half spend together the most important part is the how you spend that time. So, one should make sure that they engage in a quality time to maintain a deep connection
3. Eat and Laugh together
It is said that a family that eats together, stays together. The dinner table for the couples is a place where they can get time to connect and nourish their relationship.
4. Don’t forget the small things
Manners are an important factor. Do not reserve ‘please’ and ‘Thank you’ for the company and extend the same respect to your spouse as you would to a visiting guest.
5. Shared goals and values
What makes a relation happy is sharing core beliefs. Couples might have different interests but what counts is that they must share common values and goals.
Avoid comparisons with others. Happiest of the couples do not look at the other side of the grass instead try to be happy and satisfied with the view out their own front door.
7. Go on Vacation
They should go on a vacation! Ultimately, you will return to your partner enthusiastic, energised and more in love than ever.
8. Choosing your own Battles
There is no relationship on this earth where there is no argument or fight. It is very crucial to bring the issues to the forefront and work through the bad and hard times together. So, a couple should choose their battles wisely, because this normally couples in a healthy relationship do.
People say that a flower a day keep the fights at bay. In an affair, it is important to appreciate your other half to show them that you love them with small acts of kindness, flowers, cards etc.
10. Time Apart
Just as spending time together in a relationship is important, similarly spending time apart and remaining independent is vital. This would help in maintaining healthy boundaries.
So, in a nutshell, a perfect relationship isn’t actually perfect, it’s just that both people never give up.