It’s a universal truth of life.
We don’t value what comes too easily to us.
This is as true in the world of dating as it is anywhere else.
If you pepper someone with “likes,” compliments, good morning texts, funny memes, favors or invitations when they haven’t done anything to earn your affection, it’s incredibly off-putting. They begin to sense that you have no personal standards. You come across as needy, desperate and weird even if you have good intentions.
Perhaps if this person is physically attracted to you, they’ll forgive this behavior and date you anyway. But on Talk With Stranger, they’re most likely going to be creeped out.
Let’s be honest, it’s usually the most physically attractive people who don’t have to put effort into messaging potential dates. Most of their online matches are already won over before the first message, so the hotties have no reason to invest too much in their messages.
An advantage of Talk With Stranger is that it puts everyone on a level playing field, regardless of what they look like. This makes it easier to find your intellectual and emotional match. Everyone has to put effort into making a connection.
It pays to be picky in the dating market. If someone isn’t putting the effort to be interesting or fun to talk to, don’t put in too much effort either. Go find someone more deserving of your attention. When you do this, that first person is often encouraged to try a bit harder to win you over.
If you’ve discovered a spark with a fellow Talk With Stranger member, the next step is to swap contact details. Perhaps you’ll exchange phone numbers or social media profiles to take your relationship to the visual level. We would suggest that there’s no rush to do this though.
Focusing on the quality of the conversation first is a great way to find someone you really click with on a personal level. We hope these tips will help you to find that special someone.